The Greatness Guide - Window of Opportunity:
I don’t always get it right (I told you I’m no guru). But please
know that I try so hard to walk my talk and to ensure my video is
in alignment with my audio. Still, I am a human being, and that
means sometimes I slip (I’ve yet to meet a perfect one). Here’s
what I mean.
I spend a lot of time encouraging the readers of my books
and the participants at my workshops on personal and organi-
zational leadership to “run toward your fears” and to seize
those “cubic centimeters of chance” (opportunities) when they
present themselves. I challenge my clients to dream, to shine
and to dare, because to me a life well lived is all about reaching
for your highest and your best. And, in my mind, the person
who experiences the most wins. Most of the time, I am a poster
boy for visiting the places that scare me and doing the things
that make me feel uncomfortable. But recently, I didn’t. Sorry.
I was downtown at the Four Seasons in Toronto, in the
lobby getting ready for a speech I was about to give to a com-
pany called Advanced Medical Optics, which is a long-standinPM ROBIN SHARMA
leadership coaching client of ours and an impressive organi-
zation. I look up and guess who I see? Harvey Keitel. Yes, the
Harvey “Reservoir Dogs Big Movie Star” Keitel. And what does
the man who wrote The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari do? I shrink
from greatness.
Each day, life will send you little windows of
opportunity. Your destiny will ultimately be
defi ned by how you respond to these
windows of opportunity.
I don’t know why I didn’t stand up and walk over and
make a new friend. I’ve done it with baseball legend Pete Rose
at the Chicago airport (we ended up sitting next to each other
all the way to Phoenix). I did it last summer with Henry Kravis,
one of the planet’s top fi nanciers in the lobby of a hotel in Rome
(I was with my kids, and Colby, my 11-year-old son, thought he
was pretty cool). I did it with Senator Edward Kennedy when I
saw him in Boston. I even did it with guitar virtuoso Eddie Van
Halen when I was a kid growing up in Halifax, Nova Scotia. But
I missed the chance to connect with Harvey Keitel.
Each day, life will send you little windows of opportunity.
Your destiny will ultimately be defi ned by how you respond to
these windows of opportunity. Shrink from them and your life
will be small. Feel the fear and run to them anyway, and your life
will be big. Life’s just too short to play little. Even with your kids,
you only have a tiny window to develop them and champion
their highest potential. And to show them what unconditional
love looks like. When that window closes, it’s hard to reopen it.
If I see Harvey Keitel again, I promise you that I’ll sprint
toward him. He may think I’m a celebrity stalker until we start
to chat. And then he’ll discover the truth: I’m simply a man who
seizes the gifts that life presents to him.
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